Monday, July 6, 2009

So this week me and my husband got in a little fight over primary lessons. Its funny how some days the littlest things can turn into the biggest fights. Things that before didn't bother you at all, suddenly drive you up the wall. This week it was his turn to teach our primary class, but this week his brother was blessing their new baby so he was supposed to find someone to teach our class for him, since it was at the same time as the blessing. Being the great wife that I am :) I reminded him Monday night he needed to find someone for that Sunday. Monday came and gone. Thursday I reminded him again, because he still hadn't found the time to take care of it. Well come Saturday night at about midnight, I kindly ask him had he taken care of it, and his answer, "No, it wasn't really my prioperty!" HELLO at this point I'm annoyed. My words, "I reminded you ten times this week, and you still haven't done it." And they say husbands don't listen to their wives, really! So we go to bed not speaking, this is a thing we didn't use to do, the first couple weeks of our marriage, because we thought it best never to go to bed mad! Sunday morning we get up and go to the blessing then we leave and go teach our primary class and I'm just so mad that we have to go that I can't even speak to him. We teach the class no big deal and its all over. But I can't stop being mad at him, and we spend most of the rest of the day barely looking at each other. When we finally decided it wasn't worth it to continue this way, we talked it out and the world was suddenly so much better. Why, had I spent the whole day being mad about something that that was so stupid? Can I blame it on hormones or that time of the month, no sadly I can't. Advice for the day, don't let the little things, and the fact that your husband may not think something you think is a prioerty get you down, because it will always get better. Ironic: our primary lesson was on FORGIVENESS.................ok I got it I'm working on it!